What does it take for a person to change? Does it take an event, a thought, an emotion? I ponder this as I am being convinced that I need to change. Change the person that I am because of my negative traits. I am at a crossroads in my life and somewhere out there, there is a happy median between who I am and who others want me to be. There is nothing that I would rather do than walk in the opposite direction of the happy median. I am curious to know if I am truly this person that others say I am. I am fighting. I will not stop fighting and someday soon I will come out on top. Negative trait #4 - I am never wrong. I am right about that. I am who ever I say I am. Not anyone else.